love - happiness - and me being i

There are people who are fortunate enough to have genuine love and happiness in their life and they do that what they enjoy. Some of us are less fortunate (for whatever reason or cause), or we have got lost along the way, or somewhere we have gone off the tracks in one or more of the above.

I have set up this Berlin based web blog to help those who would like to find that Love, Happiness, and Being You, or for those who would like to find their way again, or would like to get back on track in one or more of the above.

In my own childhood I never attained this. The loneliness, sadness, confusion, inner conflict, unhappiness, uncertainty and lack of self respect or self esteem, or believe in myself and even self hate, spread out across the plains of my life. I have spent a great many years on these themes, trying to find ways, trying to understand, learning techniques to help, learning psychology and self-help techniques, learning Meridian Energy and Self-Hypnosis techniques, learning and trying to understand how the mind works, how emotions effect us and why. And last but not least studied art and looked at how creative techniques can help.

Modern medicine has taught us many things. For example that in many cases of serious or deadly illnesses there is no one cure but a cocktail or combination of drugs and treatments are needed. In my opinion this is also true when we try to regain, or find, the path to our Love, Happiness and the Being You.

On this Creative Techniques website you will find a range of possibilities. But in most cases I think they will only work if you find an individual cocktail, or combination, of techniques. Some I will class as being essential, although this is only my opinion, to the cocktail/combination approach, which is also essential.  Just to pick up a pencil and scribble some lines or with a paintbrush splash some paint about is unlikely to bring much change. Although this could have a good meditation effect and is to be recommended for this alone, and it could also be part of the cocktail process. However change is something else and you will probably need not only a cocktail but also the motivation. People with serious illnesses take the cocktails because they have no choice. If you want to find or re-find that path then you too have no real choice. But the whole process should be one of a kind of playfulness. It is possible that your situation (or feelings) does not appear playful; nevertheless the process needs a certain amount of childlike approach.

I wish you good luck. I am here to help and support wherever and however I can. There is a special page for children since children have always been my primary concern in helping.  Their life is just starting but this life can be taken away, or destroyed, even before it really starts. This can happen even when we adults are not even aware that this is happening; simply because we adults do not take (do) our own cocktail that can bring change.

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This is a meeting point for those caught in a situation such as, loneliness, sadness, a bad relationship, unhappiness, uncertainties at work or in study, health problems, bereavement, or other similar situations, and who wish to find ways to deal with these situations. A Blog that offers possibilities while being a meeting point that gives support in the personal aims.

Blood! No, that is not blood in the banner photo above, it is only paint! Have no fear, this website is about happiness, interactions, fun, success and enjoyment! You can keep your blood, we don’t need it thanks; this is not a website for blood donors. This is a website and meeting point for everyone who is looking for help or support in change. 

No, it is not about art, even though the banner photo is a detail from a dramatic painting. The painting symbolised certain themes such as suffering, imprisonment and freedom, but also believe it or not themes such as love, warmth, and happiness.

There are those who at first sight might fear, be shocked, or might reject such a painting. That is their right, but at the same time they might also be suitable candidates for this website theme.

If you are caught in one of the situations mentioned above, then these too can feel equally like suffering and imprisonment. The wish for freedom might also be there. The freedom for happiness, clarity, love, warmth, security, better relations, a better work or study situation, fulfilment of dreams or wishes, success, or whatever.

Here on this Blog we look at ways that can help you achieve that what you desire. The process should be one of fun and enjoyment, leading to the happiness

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You might be lonely. You might be in a bad or unhappy relationship. Maybe you’re dissatisfied with your life, your job, your study. May you are feeling sad or disheartened. You might just want to improve or change something in your life. The idea of this website is to provide you with simple techniques and ideas that can help you change your situation in the way you want or would like.

Maybe you have more important things to do. It doesn’t matter. The only thing that matters is that there is something you would like to change, achieve, or gain more insight into, or clarity about. That and your willingness to try. A serious try, after all it is for you and no one else. It is your choice and your life.  The very least you might gain is some enjoyment. The most you will lose is some time.

In many ways we are just like moles. Without realising it, and often without intent, we create holes in our life. These holes are connected by a network of tunnels which we travel up and down. We become used to these tunnels and holes, and feeling safe within them we only rarely, if ever, venture out of them. Yet, human life is not as static as that. We all change, inward, outward and around us. Also everything else around us changes. Even if some things seem to remain the same in reality they are not. We might think we have adapted to the new changes and gone with them, but it is likely that we have not. We find rifts opening up around and within us. Often we are not even aware of these until much later (and often not even then) when the rift has become a huge gap. It happens in relationships, friendships, work, children, pleasure, and happiness, as well as in so many other things, even with our own creativity. It is likely that we have got lost within our own elaborate system of tunnels and holes.

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The moles might choose to stay in their cold holes in the hard earth under the freezing snow and difficulty of finding food, but they are moles and are at home in such conditions. Their eyes are small or covered since they hardly use them. We can keep our eyes closed, stay inside our dark, hard and cold holes and tunnels and attempt to live of the worms we can find in our life. Maybe we think we are safe there, that everything will be okay, is okay, so we keep our eyes tightly shut and try to do the same with our hearts and minds. But we are not moles and no matter how hard we try we never will be, not really.

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